So this is the skill you don’t have to learn,
it comes automatically,
Mostly pursued by girls
but boys also develop simultaneously
Dont overthink on the question
if it is an art or skill
because it is used interchangebly.
I dont know which part of the brain controls it but its definetly do not come from reflexes.
It grows and grows deep and deep
till your decision supresses.
For one it would be a simple Happy Birthday but for us it is happy birthday or only b’day.
Do I need to put exclaimation or just smiley would convey?
Should I add a line or two more
only to make it look allure
or will it be too much
and will make me look insecure?
It starts with should I or shouldn’t I
and mostly ends with ifs, what ifs and buts
It takes days and hours and few more minutes till we finally come up to conclusion to press that send button.
Then a deep breath….
and the agony starts again in seconds
oh no I shouldn’t have done,
I shouldn’t have sent.